The world is so quick to judge, to react, to take things personally. Perhaps, for one second, it wasn’t about you and about ME.
I have experienced a lot of people questioning why I did this, why I said that, why why why. I don’t owe anyone an explanation. The only obligation is the one I owe to myself. No one is inside my head or my heart. I have to be happy with my life, my life that I live according to ME.
At the end of the day, you don’t have to love me, like me, or even agree with me. I live with my choices, words, and actions, not you. I do what’s best for me, not you. You questioning me only makes me realize a few things….You should have never been that close to me to begin with…..You know nothing about the real me……
People make personal decisions and choices all the time. What gives me or anyone else the right to judge or question? I am no better than anyone, no closer to perfect or higher on the pedestal.
Perhaps if we took all the time wasted judging and questioning everyone else and internalized it instead, the sun might look brighter. The world might be nicer.
Until you walk in their shoes, you have no foundation to judge.
“You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view… Until you climb inside of his skin and walk around in it.”
― Harper Lee,
Be Kind. Be You. Life’s too short.